In a landscape crowded with symbols, we choose simplicity. By committing to one signature design, it creates instant recognition—allowing queer femmes to find one another without confusion or guesswork.

There are countless symbols, colors, and messages associated with queer identity. For queer femmes, that can sometimes make recognition feel ambiguous.

The Femme Identifier takes a different approach.

Instead of offering a collection of competing symbols, we created one signature design intended to become recognizable among queer femmes. The goal is simple: fewer questions, less guesswork, and more opportunities to recognize one another.

One piece. One signal. A shared language.

The Femme Identifier’s signature chevron shape is inspired by the heart symbol, reflecting love and femininity.

Its salt and pepper diamonds make for the perfect contrast to its brilliant rose gold color - representing the duality of strength and softness that femmes embody.

The combination of our heart-inspired shape with the attached double-sided “Femme” toggle achieves a unique pairing that stands out among the rest!

Twist the double-sided toggle to signal different meanings to your personal identity as you see fit. Or simply to switch up your look whenever you please! ;)

• 14K/18K Solid Gold - Our solid gold option carries the thickness and weight that folds comfortably around the wrist. All gold is sourced responsibly, recycled whenever possible - ensuring conscious sustainable practices.

• 925 Sterling Silver - Our silver is 925 global standard, meaning 92.5% is pure silver accompanying 7.5% of other metals (no nickel) to achieve long-term durability. Each piece is then coated with rhodium to achieve that extra shine!

• Salt & Pepper Diamonds - All material options come made with these galactic shade diamonds.

  All diamonds are hand-selected with documentation of origin, ensuring ethical sourcing and processes that align with our company values.

• All metals are completely nickel-free!

We believe in size-inclusivity and carry sizes 6 - 8.5.

If you are in need of a different size, send us a message and we’d be happy to accommodate you.

All customizations require 6 - 8 weeks of production before shipment.